How can you be happier tomorrow?
How can you be happier tomorrow?Something a bit different for this Easter weekend, which I have adapted from a Facebook post I read, helped me reflect on what was important. Hi Reader We convince ourselves that life in sales will be better after we get that first AE job, get a bigger territory, and then a promotion to sales manager. Then we are frustrated that the team aren't performing enough, and we'll be more content when they are. After that, we were frustrated that we had an underperforming sales team to deal with. We will certainly be happy when they are finally hitting their numbers consistently. We tell ourselves that our working life will be complete when our manager/company/team gets their act together, when we get a nicer car, are able to go on a nice holiday, when we retire. The truth is, there's no better time to be happy than right now. If not now, when? Your life will always be filled with challenges, especially in the unpredictable world of B2B sales, where your results are affected by the emotional decisions of others. It's best to admit this to yourself and choose to be happy anyway. In a quote from Alfred D. Souza, he said, "For a long time, it had seemed to me that life was about to begin - real life! But there was always some obstacle in the way, something to be gotten through first, some unfinished business, time still to be served, or a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last, it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life." This perspective has helped me to see that there is no way to happiness. Happiness is the way. So, treasure every moment you have and treasure it more because you shared it with some special people, special enough to spend your time...and remember that time waits for no one. So, stop waiting until you lose 3 kilograms, until you gain 3 kilograms, until you have kids, until your kids leave the house, until you start work, until you get promoted, until you hire a team, until you win that big account, until you retire, until you get married, until you get divorced, until Friday night, until Sunday morning, until you get a new car or home, until your car or home is paid off, until spring, until summer, until winter, until your song comes on, until you've had a drink.... there is no better time than right now to be happy. Happiness is a journey, not a destination. Be curious about others and their hopes, fears and needs, Work like you don't need money, Help prospects to make the right choices like you actually care about them more than your commission cheque, Love like you've never been hurt, Learn and grow like you were just starting out, Dance like no one's watching. Coach others to be the best version of themselves, Live in the moment, enjoy the diversity in your day, and roll with the setbacks you'll inevitably face. Best, |